Hello. My husband was diagnosed in 2021. He was 52 at the time of diagnosis. He has always been one of the most active and healthy individuals I have ever known. He ran many marathons, including Boston so he was fast, never ate anything unhealthy, never smoked, rarely drank and exercised daily, but has a family history of prostate cancer - both brothers, his dad and uncle all had prostate cancer and one brother at the age of 40.

Nobody in his family ever had prostate cancer spread outside of the prostate, except my husband. And all family members who had prostate cancer had their prostate removed.

At diagnosis my husband’s Gleason was a ten and he was informed he has an aggressive form of prostate cancer.

After he had his prostate removed we were informed that the cancer had spread to his lymph nodes.

This was devastating. Stage 4 metastatic prostate cancer at age 52. We have three children and have been married now for 25 years.

He underwent radiation for 33 days and then two years of hormone therapy. aberaterone, daily steroid and lupron. He felt bad. Not himself, very limited energy and frankly depressed. It was a very difficult time for him and our family.

Fast forward and he is now three years out from initial diagnosis. He has been off the hormone therapy for one year. His PSA is undetectable. He has more energy now than he did during treatment and we are thankful that so far his cancer has not come back.

This diagnosis has forced us to live life by the day. Nobody knows how long we all will have. We have good days and then some days are full of worry and asking what if.

We are thankful for the time we have now. My husband has plans to do some things he would otherwise put off for later on in his life had he not been diagnosed with cancer.

He’s going to run the Grand Canyon from rim to rim, in the fall. Even if the definition of run may include several breaks in between to stop and rest.

I read these posts weekly and it helps me to hear your stories.

Enjoy the day today. The present is really all anyone has.