I fell on a ramp in 2015 and hurt my coccyx and sit bones. Nothing helped. Not injections to the facets, nor nerve blocks, or three rounds of pelvic floor therapy, nor chiropractic, nor acupuncture. I sat on a donut for pregnant women at work and at home. Magnetic therapy didn’t work either. Massage helped for a few hours. Reiki helped as well but still the pain was off the chart. It feels like sitting on golf balls with pain radiating down your buttocks into your calf’s. So what worked? Well I did a very unconventional thing : I tried medical marijuana . If you read my story of my spinal cord trauma or on chronic pain I’ve studied so much about the terpenes and cannabinoids in both sativa and indica strains it’s easy to find products for spasms and pain. By now your husband likely has what I have: craps and the spasms just don’t stop. Standing feels the best. Something else I found helpful was getting a large Nikon Magnet about 5x7 and I sit on it. I buy a salve that’s THC with other oils and it immediately numbs the area for a several hours. I remember crying the first time I did a tincture.
I laid in bed because I didn’t know how I’d feel. I am 74 now but I was 69 when I tried medical marijuana. Why did I cry? Because it was the first time since 2015 when I fell on that ramp that I was totally out of pain. If your state has recreational or medical marijuana, I’d make an appointment to see a doctor to get started.