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The more you know, the more you realize how little you know (Dunning Kruger). This experience didn't impact my health, but is otherwise telling. I'm a 69 yo woman who bikes ~6000 mi/year and got a painful (when biking) perineal lump. All the doctors dismissed this 2" lump, no diagnosis even though it is an ischial hygroma (perineal induration nodule) that mostly hits male pro cyclists. I delineated it on the MRI and provided research papers. The "sports medicine" doctor didn't know what that is and tested for a cyst (no) and said I need to go to a gynecologist or gastroenterologist (huh?). WTF. My primary doctor just said find a gyn, and that gyn asked why I'm going to see her for a sports injury, so I told her. She found a gynecologist triathlete that is interested in sports medicine, who signed me up for pelvic PT and the lump is now small enough that I can bike again. Pelvic PT is also good for ED, post-pregnancy prolapse, incontinence, and other down-there stuff. I love medicine and considered becoming a doctor, but even 50 years ago there was too much bureaucracy in medicine. Seeing a doctor should be a joint exploration, but sometimes you have to gird your (lumpy) loins.
@beth71 - Thank you for sharing this. How absolutely maddening!
I am not so experienced in this kind of situation as you are, but my first reaction was - change your primary care doctor (is that the "ID"?) !!
Maybe not an option for some reason/s, but as you described and must have experienced it, the "gaslighting" coming off, at a minimum, as a lack of professional concern and medical attention, is greatly troubling, but as we hear from many others here, not uncommon.
Every patient needs to be as well-informed as they can be, yet it is on the professional/s to use all available knowledge and latest developments to the benefit of patients. I don't understand how this practice is tolerated across the board in the medical profession. If it is due to some kind of 'unrelenting, unreasonable pressure' from the monolithic insurance industry, then who is responsible for enabling and perpetuating that, to the "dis-ease" of compromised patients? How can there not be accountability?
Not intending to start a separate discussion on the insurance industry here, but if that is the source of the problem, as big as it is, where is the push and action toward reform? (Rhetorical Q, for now. 🙋♀️)