My story is like yours.....your peter looks like a turtle with its head sticking out of the shell.....I solved my incontinence problem by drinking a lot more water daily and taking 4 prunes a day.....My gleason scores are like yours . My metastis was to my pelvic lymph nodes....RT was completed a year ago....Tired alot....Water consumption seemed to solve my incontinence....Good Luck.....I m 75. Last quarter of the football game.