I’m sorry you are going through this too. Some days he seems to be fine - other days not - and his moods are affected by my reactions so I am trying to stay positive and not get irritated when he doesn’t remember things. The comments and suggestions here are already helping me to be kinder - for a day or two - since I just joined! 🤣 I know that I don’t get enough “alone” time. I probably made him appear totally incapacitated but I think he isn’t ready for a caregiver yet. He can still do things for himself and he likes to take care of our houseplants. He also likes to cook. I am here when he does and I do the clean up. Letting him be as independent as possible - it’s just the memory issues and his own complaints about his health that upset me. That and the fact that he looks so much older when he can’t stand up straight. I think others have it much worse than I do. That’s why he should really be diagnosed if it is the beginning stages of dementia or something else. I wish you the best too! ❤️🤗