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@nessieami7

My husband began a very long journey with his mental and overall health. The anger issues were the first to emerge with throwing things and raising his voice. I had to call the police with one incident. Unfortunately, my husband was a retired State Constable. The officer interviewed my husband first. Then he came to me and said, " your husband wants you out of the house, why don't you do it."
Then came the catheters, the infections, the struggle with eating, all the basic ADLS of a life. Finally, we were given the definition of FTD or frontal temporal dementia. He slowly left this life on earth as I medicated him with morphine via Hospice. I kept him at home and held his head as I cried, soaking his face with tears. He took his last three breaths and was gone.

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@nessieami7 Welcome to Mayo Clinic Connect! Sounds like you had a Very difficult time. The anger seems to be the most frequent problem mentioned. Do you have any tips on how you managed it?
Did you handle all the caregiving tasks or did you have some help? In hindsight, what would you tell new caregivers?

I am sorry for the loss of your husband...well before he took his final breaths. How women manage to stay through these awful days amazes me...I understand love, loyalty, strength..all of this...I just don't yet know how it is done...one day at a time is what you hear. What is left of you when it is over!!?? I ask this with great respect and admiration and no judgment.