Hello, I understand your concerns. I had a similar situation. I live in Wyoming and wanted a second opinion from the Phoenix Mayo Clinic. A long story short: I had a Zoom meeting. After the Zoom meeting I was asked if I want to go ahead with their plan or if I wanted to talk with another doctor. Initially, I said I didn’t know and would let them know. After a week, my wife and I felt comfortable with their plan and I didn’t have second doubts. Good luck your decision.