I will have to admit I have been envious at times when I see the supportive wife/partner advocating for her man and being more active on these sites than the guy himself. I would have liked to have had someone that could have just worked equally with me. Although I did have a girlfriend that was supportive at times,I felt I was taking care of her more than she was me. That was before stage 4. Now that I’ve been diagnosed with stage 4 requiring chemo last summer and now Pluvicto I don’t have the energy to deal with the drama of her life which really intensified last October when she moved her 40 year old son in with her after his wife finally kicked him out for what I thought was all the right reasons. My girlfriend had previously said she would not move him in if this happened but she did and I have been on my own since. I think I would have been better off had I not even had a girlfriend because going through a breakup during the middle of stage 4 cancer treatment is really really tough.