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Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Jun 5 11:31am | Replies (103)

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@lbrockme

I think what is mostly needed by someone going through health crisis is an empathetic ear.
Someone to listen, who cares.
So many people say " I just don't know what to say, so I don't go see them"
It's not about saying anything. It's about listening to them. Allowing them a place to truly be heard without judgement. To just sit with them, be with them . To be available for that. Sending a communication to them regularly, such as a card or text , just saying I'm thinking of you... it really can have so much impact in the patients feeling of support.

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dloos | @dloos | May 27 12:29pm

Yes, I agree that just staying in touch means a lot. I don’t feel like having company or going out, but a quick text or email is helpful for me. Some of my friends understand that. Others seemed offended that I did not want them to “help” me in the way they wanted to help. “Let’s go for a drive.” or “I’ll come over to talk.”
I can’t really do that now, and though I’ve explained why, some people don’t “get it”, and prefer to move on.
They wanted the help to be on their terms and so sometimes you just have to let them go.
If I ever get well, I doubt I will try to pick up these relationships.
I have a few people that understand, and keep in touch the best we can. That helps me the most.

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