I can so identify with you! I am 86 & after seeing the results of an overdue bone scan in October, my family doctor essentially said "Reclast!" I said no! And that's where we stand. I fractured a wrist bone in May but nothing else & have had no falls. Have been going locally to physical therapy once a week. I have an appt with an endocrinologist at Univ of WI Hospital in April. I recently found Keith McCormick's two books & feel that his is the right approach to osteoporosis & am thinking of contacting him for a consult (I am in Wisconsin). My brother lives in New Hampshire - not all THAT far from where Dr. McCormick has his office, so that is a thought.