My goodness. You have been through the wringer and still hanging in there. My situation is not as tough as yours probably but my help has came from faith in God, and yes He uses everyday people to help, encourage, inspire and to pray. I’d just like to say with God all things are possible and one of my favorite Bible verses, Philippians 4:13. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Keep looking up, hang in there. You can win this battle.