You are not crazy, and props to you for advocating for yourself and asking for a referral to a rheumatologist. That’s a great next step, and also don’t be afraid to keep asking and change rheumatologists if you don’t feel they’re the right fit.
I don’t have lupus, but I have an autoimmune arthritis called seronegative spondyloarthropathy. Pain can be severe even though lab tests for all the inflammatory markers are normal. Joint damage from x-rays or MRIs may take years to be revealed to “prove” the diagnosis.
Suffice it to say, it was very difficult for me to get a correct diagnosis. I was seen at Mayo Rochester for a full workup after seeing three rheumatologists in Chicago at major medical centers, and the rheumatology team at Mayo misdiagnosed me.
I can relate to that feeling of being crazy. After all, if the great and powerful Mayo concluded there was “low suspicion” of an inflammatory or autoimmune condition, then clearly I must be crazy, right?
We all deserve quality of life and healthcare providers who believe and will support us, to help find answers, but also to help us connect to the best fit treatment as well. Wishing you all the best!
@emo - that's where I'm at as well - seronegative, but with some overlapping symptoms not necessarily associated with Spondyloarthropathy. I have relentless back, hip and sometimes shoulder pain. May I ask what you're on for it and whether you feel it's working? I have tried Humira, Enbrel, Rinvoq, Orencia, Rituxan, and Cosentyx infusions, but I have never been able to get off steroids successfully without a severe flare (I take Medrol every day). My rheumatologist just suggested I try Remicade as it has more flexibility in dosing (up to 4 times the initial dose) and there is flexibility in how it's given (it's supposed to be every 8 weeks, but the infusion can be every 6 or 4 weeks). I'm hoping this is the one, but then again I hope every one is "the one!" I'm not ready to give up just yet, but I am running out of options.
I was going to say that it's hard to believe you were misdiagnosed at Mayo, but it's not really all that hard to believe as it took 25 years to figure out that the root cause of my back pain was inflammatory. I saw countless orthopedics, spine specialists, chiropractors, physiatrists, and physical therapists during that time, and every one of them misdiagnosed my crippling back pain. So many of these autoimmune diseases mimic something else or don't show up on blood work so it makes it that much harder to get treatment. I hope you are feeling well and your symptoms are being managed. I would love to hear if you have any other suggestions that you feel have worked well for you.
Best, Pauline 🙂