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Dealing with a spouse who has profound hearing loss.
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to thisoldewe:
regarding the line "if the deaf person initially refuses to go to therapy,
then the other members of the family should go." He doesn't see the need
to go. He has given up on all expectations. I have spent years trying to
reengage him with life and finally am reluctantly coming to the conclusion
that I have to accept this as his decision and move on. 😟
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Hi leeda5,
If your spouse will not go... that is his choice... we all make decisions about our lives. Whether or not you make this transition together or not, does not change the face that you, yourself, have been through a great deal of stress! This would benefit greatly from some formnif input/ therapy/ self-help group.
Plz read Julie's comment about her journey. Having support in a safe environment is priceless, and will impact you for good no matter which direction your life takes. Can you contact or go to any of these groups, conferences that Julie is mentioning?
Finding others who understand is beyond strengthening for you.
Maybe just a phone call maybe helpful in getting you in touch with the right folk.
At this point, your own self care is your first priority ... and no, that is not selfish. You are building a new road forward; and that needs a strong foundation!
It starts with baby steps... so take just one!
Let us know how you are doing.
We are here for you!
All the best!