Imo, you shouldn’t have to be concerned with anything but feeling better when possible…..no trouble, no tasks, no listening to others pain, nothing but resting and focusing on feeling as good as you can at the moment. I don’t know why you aren’t getting that. Sorry…maybe, they don’t realize how they sound. I have a family member who constantly complains of pain and being sick. She’s done it for many years no matter the circumstances. So frustrating. It’s a difficult situation. Hope it improves.