Hey standtall, we’ve spoken before about our surgical ‘mishaps’…why don’t you get a copy of the Surgical Report - that’s the actual surgical narrative of the procedure. They HAVE TO give it to you. Perhaps it can shed some light on what may have gone awry and you can take this info to a neurologist or some other specialist and see if you can have some kind of treatment or therapy to alleviate the problem.
There is NO reason why you should be reduced to this invalid status by prostate surgery - NONE! If you absolutely must - a lawsuit should be considered and as a retired health professional I do not offer this advice lightly.
Sometimes doctors are only forthcoming when they are threatened with a lawsuit and if it absolutely has to be pursued in court facts will come out that have not been previously disclosed. Again, as a retired dentist and having attended many insurance seminars, the blunders that some docs try to hide are unbelievable!!!!
Anything is better than sitting there waiting to die…F***K THAT!