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Breast Cancer | Last Active: Feb 26 8:53pm | Replies (20)

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That must have been so frustrating to have to get so many different opinions before getting the correct diagnosis. I think my option now is to go back to my family doctor. He's been my doctor for about 18 years now and i have a pretty good relationship with him - he too can be very dismissive at times but i can call him out on it. He may not agree with a referral elsewhere but if it will make me feel better or give me peace of mind, he'd probably be willing to do it.

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Chris, Volunteer Mentor | @auntieoakley | Feb 25 10:40am

I was reading your post and quite distressed about your situation and the dismissiveness. I would contact another imaging center or ob/gyn and ask if you can get a second opinion, or if you live near a large cancer center or teaching hospital that might be even better.
As for it being in you record that you had concerns, I believe that might be a double edged sword. Yes, you want to know you have the right to be concerned, on the other the comments might end up labeling you as “that patient”. I can’t say what might be better.
All I can say is you know your body better than anyone else possibly can, if you believe there is a problem keep seeking until you are satisfied.
Do you have the ability to travel to a large center with your records?

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