Laura, I don't know if you can see the posts above, but the Hearing Loss Association of America has been very helpful for me. I am fortunate enough to live near the Chester County, Pa chapter, which is a remarkably energetic group. They are having a monthly meeting on Thursday March 14 at 3:00 on Zoom. Please try to attend or at least get on their mailing list. You can also connect directly with me - leedastur5@gmail.com. I understand fully the unbearable isolation and frustration that you describe. You are very smart to reach out and to ask for help. The health of your entire family is at stake. I do hope to hear directly from you.