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Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: Mar 26 6:30pm | Replies (127)

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@nscappa

Thank you Wendy, I really appreciate that you went to that trouble and what you said does make sense. I couldn't believe that I actually went so long but with my depression (which is in full swing and yes, I do take antidepressants) but my trouble is mostly financial and feeling isolated because I live where I can't get to many places without a car (my car died about 2 years ago). Now I have to take my cat Lola to the vet because I think she might be sick which is going to cost about $470.00 which is going to kill my checking account. I know I'm crying (not literally) : ) ,but things just seem to get more difficult. I am at the point where I don't care about doing things that I should be doing. Oh well, things will work out (I hope). Thank you again for your comments, I truly appreciate it. I took a shower last week and I felt wonderful. I will take your advice Wendy. : )

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Wow, I just saw your reply to me. Thank you for getting back to me. You are very quick!! Just finished editing my comment after seeing your post I’m assuming that you saw it without me editing it. After editing it was hoping that my post was not too long. Because that there was my first post. I’m glad that you enjoyed reading it. Now I’m going to read through all of your comments. I’m gonna try to save this thread in case there’s another comment to me on it. So sorry to hear about your poor little baby. And oh yes, I forgot to mention that I also take anti- depressants. And I’m sorry that you’re struggling financially. Do you have friends or family to help you out? My problem is I have CO-PTSD, and my fiancé takes my car to work. I have no transportation and I really Rarely get out of the house at all. I am really wanting to force myself to go take the GED and get my college education. About 15 years ago, I pulled up to college and I live down south and took the pre-entrance exam right there on the spot and I passed it, so I’m going to make myself status. Which is why I really need to start bathing regularly.
Lmao 😜
Good luck to you sweetie hopefully you and I and many others will be able to get through this if anything, perhaps help will come from that for us each by sharing our pain and suffering with each other.

Wishing you the best of health and happiness, stay safe out there 🥰
Wendy Mae

I don’t understand why you’re in debt so much but you can find $470.00 for your sick cat. What are your priorities. Becoming homeless or paying $470.00 for a sick cat. You must be able to find out what your cat has and how much it will cost. I have pets myself and I know that they are a family member who needs treatment but $470.00 dollars?
I hope you can find an empathetic vet to help you for less money although you might to pay monthly.
When I was in Vietnam I was a K9 handler and once a year I had to put him down because they become unable to handle. He was a German shepherd. You see, police k9’s can be kept until they die of natural causes.

The reason was that an army K9 goes for the throat while a police K9 went for a
suspects arm and leg. Army K9 can save you daily but a police k9 just goes to stop a suspect. Based on that logic I had to take my army k9 to a vet to be put down usually because they become aggressive so I know what it’s like. See if the vet would let you pay in installments.