@danny5 ,
My girlfriends and I call it “date weight” to describe the size we feel comfortable with our bodies. For me, it’s when I feel fit and comfortable being intimate. Maybe, my body size shouldn’t matter, but for me…most of my life I have been slim to average size. Normally 130 pounds and when I gained a lot…I didn’t feel like myself. I didn’t intend to imply others should be a certain weight.

My digestive issues started September 2022. I’m not sure what the cause is, but I’m hoping it can be corrected and I can return to normal function. I do have Type 1 diabetes and that will never change unless I get a pancreas transplant, which is unlikely. But, I’m used to that. 😊