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What do we do with all this stuff?

Aging Well | Last Active: Feb 8 12:03am | Replies (43)

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Stuff is stuff! Some may appeal to our kids, grandkids, friends, neighbors...
But in the end, "you can't take it with you" and you should not be offended if nobody else values it as you do.
At the same time, nobody should "shame" you into getting rid of it before you want to or must.

What have I done?
Curated what I want to keep and enjoy, or things I still use, to fit the space I have. If I can't see it or find it, I guess I don't need it.
Of the excess, I have offered my "treasures", first to my kids, then to other family members.
No takers? I offer it on "Buy Nothing" hoping to find an eager owner.
Finally, donate to a local organization equipping people to move into their own place if appropriate, or to a "vintage" dealer.

As I repeat my decluttering each year, I will follow the same path.
Happily, I now have empty drawers, shelves and closet space.
By the time I actually downsize (or my kids remove everything) I hope the job will be easy.

If you have an exceptional collection of books, art, artifacts or other material, you may also need to consider finding a "forever" home for it with a museum, library, historical society, etc.
Sue

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Great suggestions, Sue!
Responding now to @ckkk, I'd like to chime in:
My husband and I started downsizing before we bought a smaller home and we STILL had way too much stuff when we moved. The kids had taken what they wanted, including furniture, and the rest was given to Goodwill, Salvation Army, etc. I'm not sure who the author was, but the idea of looking at an item and determining if it makes you feel joy or not, was extremely helpful. I'm not a "keeper" but my husband was. The unnecessary things I kept over the years, being an only child, were mostly of sentimental value, but not necessarily my sentiments. I knew that there were things that meant a lot to my mom or dad. It was easier to part with things when I considered the "joy" aspect, the cost of insuring it, the bother of dusting it, or the uselessness of storing it.
You could concentrate on one closet each week, or one room each week, etc. - whatever works for you. It's amazing how you can feel the "burden" lifting as you have less to maintain. I would suggest that if you have someone who would be willing to physically lift, transport, and deliver boxes or bags of articles in their vehicle every so often, you will not find yourself overwhelmed or possibly injured with the project. Be sure to reward yourself every so often - your efforts bless others and make your life more manageable, too!