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Diagnosed with Ovarian and Colon Cancer

Colorectal Cancer | Last Active: Feb 15 11:24pm | Replies (16)
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@misterniceguy

Thank you for your concern. When the doctor disclosed the diagnosis of my mother's stage 4 colon cancer, we were advised that my siblings, especially before they turn 50, should undergo testing. In my case, I was also recommended to be tested for prostate and colon cancer. Additionally, my elder sibling battled stage 2 breast cancer, underwent surgery, completed chemotherapy, and is currently recovering well with regular medication.

Currently, our family is deliberating whether to proceed with my mother's chemotherapy due to her fragile state. Recently, she experienced severe stomach pains and vomiting, leading us to rush her to the ER where she received dextrose and potassium. Given her advanced stage, chemotherapy remains an option, yet considering her weakened condition, managing its side effects poses a challenge.

Do you believe it would be wise for us to revisit her doctor to discuss her current state and reassess whether she can endure chemotherapy?

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msmarcy | @msmarcy | Jan 29 5:11am

Hi - just want to be sure I was clear - I was recommending germline genetic testing. I’m including a link for more information.

And I’m so sorry that I can’t answer your gut-wrenching question. I’m not sure there’s any way to know. I think you have to go with your mom’s wishes.

I can’t post the actual link, but this may help:
www cancer.govnews-events/cancer-currents-blog/2023/germline-testing-for-cancer-underused

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rjjacobsen | @rjjacobsen | Jan 29 11:08am

I think a her doctor to oncologist discussion would be good if not required. If able, mom should be part of that discussion. It's her (or designated legal representative's) call based on advice of the medical professionals.

There are things that the oncologist can do to the chemo regimen if necessary. It appeared to me that the protocol is to start with the maximum chemo and back off if/when problems occur.

In my case, I started with FOLFOX6 and I asked them to drop the steroid amount given when they start chemo (I like to sleep at night) which they did and a few weeks later, they dropped the oxaliplatin because of nasty side effects. Collapsing in the infusion center will motivate that!

Mine was Stage 3C, not 4... your mother's experience will be different.

All the best for you and your mother.

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