I was scheduled for surgery 2 months out but after about 3 weeks I received a call on Thursday morning that there was a cancellation and I could have surgery on Monday. So I only had to worry for 4 days I must say I am happy this was the case as I can worry about up coming events. I was not one of the many that were walking around much. I was just not able to without to much discomfort. Not meaning to worry you but not everyone is the same. I have a cousin a few weeks ago had surgery and went home the next day, his house is up on piling a beach house, with many steps without any problem. I couldn’t have done that. Most likely you will find you worried about things that are going to be easier than you think. I had a friend that went through this 2 years earlier that I could talk to, you will be amazed how much it helps to talk to others. This form is full of people that will help you to.It has me. 7 plus months post surgery and doing well No regrets. On a very positive side sex is better now than it was in years for me. Because of surgery I tried injections ( I would have told you you’re crazy to even suggest this) . My best to you.