Yes, planning how my appointment will be handled is as much my responsibility, as it is my doctor. I am one person on my medical team, the hub of the wheel, as it were. Having concerns/questions ready [and paper to take notes!] organizes my thoughts.

If I feel I am not getting the best care, I will respectfully talk to that doctor, and decide if a different person would be a better fit. I have done this more than once. The result is the best group of professionals for my own situation.
Ginger