@mamacita Mhm, I really like that phrase. Everyone needs help, even the helpers, and I feel like we sometimes can forget that fact. And that's why it's important to have a support circle! To remind each-other to take care of themselves, and to support one another when things get tough.
I definitely understand what you mean about ADHD, though! I think that there's no shame in taking medication if a person needs it. Sometimes, understanding and comprehending it isn't enough, and that's okay! Whether or not a person needs medication really depends on the severity of the ADHD, and a bunch of other factors. I watched this video, and that message really struck home for me, actually: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rD9qK8-sMGQ. (Side note: I love this channel, she's the best-)