You sound like a great caregiver. I’ve had endometrial cancer for almost nine years and have heard lots of comments about how cancer is no big deal because anyone could get hit by a truck tomorrow, to very sympathetic and helpful comments. The helpful comments recognize that I have a good attitude but a hard battle to fight. My cancer has changed my life completely. The newest problem is the result of surgery for a metastatic brain tumor that has left me with constant vertigo, nausea, vomiting and ringing in my ears. I have to lie down all the time to avoid dizziness and nausea. My husband does everything he can to make life better but I feel for him because there’s so little he can do besides provide comfort and support. He certainly doesn’t have the wife he married, but he never complains.