Are you sure you aren't my wife! I'm a little over 3 years on my kidney transplant and have slipped back into some of my old habits. Thankfully my wife also gets frustrated with me and tells me her thoughts. Most of the time I agree with what she's saying and concerned about. When I believe I'm correct I go ahead and eat or drink those things. Most of the time afterwards I'll find out she was actually correct but I definitely don't let her know that! For me, her thoughts and observations help remind me of the gift I've been given and to not risk my poor judgment at times. He's lucky to have you watching out for him! Are you sure that you aren't my frustrated wife venting!