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Mon, Mar 25 5:29pm · Need help understanding a man's point of view in Just Want to Talk

Update,
The doctor thinks it's his memory changing due to his shut and his doctor is going to try and fix it tomorrow. My therapist wants me to hold my head high and try and believe in them and give him a update on the out come when they do the surgery.

I just want my husband back happy and healthy.

Fri, Mar 22 2:00pm · Need help understanding a man's point of view in Just Want to Talk

Thank you all, I feel like the third wheel in this relationship. Ever since he got the shunt he's been making excuses, the affair I forgave him but I'm still working on the trust issue….but with our daughter (his step daughter) everything is going down hill for me.

I will give you all an update, on what happens with me seeking help, and him having his shunt replaced.

Thu, Mar 21 12:56am · Need help understanding a man's point of view in Just Want to Talk

I will have to look into searching for one who will help me without putting words into my head and making matters worse than what they are….my family believes he's having an affair and his family says boys will be boys….
And friends believe I'm over bearing and jealous of them being close.

I'm not jealous, I'm happy that they can communicate with each other….I'm just upset of the way I'm being treated of not allowed to express my feelings or concerns about anything……like my feelings don't matter.
But I will get a counselor to sort this out

Wed, Mar 20 3:09pm · Need help understanding a man's point of view in Just Want to Talk

Thanks for getting back to me, I do go with him to the doctors appointments, and the man (doc) will not talk to me about the anything unless I stress the issue.
The only thing he tells me is not to nag, tease or do anything that might make my husband agitated.
My husband can tease or anything else with anyone and when it comes to me he explodes.
His everyday health, systems or what not is all about him, if something goes wrong he says no one cares.

EXAMPLE:
My daughter took her son for a walk alone and didn't ask him, he started crying and said she didn't care enough to ask him.

I'm wondering is it me who has issues with this shunt or something else entirely?

Mon, Mar 18 3:38pm · Living with Neuropathy - Welcome to the group in Neuropathy

I have been going around in circles with doctors as you have, but my BP seems to drop but my weight gain stayed the same for 4 months and I barely eat anything at all due to ain I have every time I do eat. The doctors think I have MS but won't test me for it. They are testing for everything else and it's driving me crazy knowing everything is fine and keep getting the medication I don't need. They say I have a chronic illness and put me on depression medication.

What is MS? Do I have anything to worry about, since it's on my report from 1 doctor and they don't want to test me further, or should I leave it alone?

Mon, Mar 18 3:28pm · Need help understanding a man's point of view in Just Want to Talk

My name is Laura, and my husband had a shunt put into his head to relieve the fluid off his brain. When this first happened I ignored his mood swings believing that it was due to the shunt and him being depressed because he can no longer work. Now I’m told by his doctor’s that this is not the case.
When we got married everything was perfect, now that it’s going on 15 years of marriage he has been acting and doing crazy things. He is a step-dad of my daughter, and while she was pregnant he took care of her like a husband/boyfriend would. Now that our grandson is born, he became over bearing, and ignorant to me.
EXAMPLE: If our daughter does something wrong and we get into an arguement, he would yell at me and tell me to leave her alone.

Am I wrong to think he wants a relationship with my daughter?
He says no, but the text messages that he sends to our daughter (she shows me) and the way he acts around her is putting crazy thought into my head. I have trust isses as it is with an affair he had 3 years ago.

Please, can someone help me to understand.
Is it a mid-life crisis?
The shunt?
Or is it just me seeing and hearing whats not there?

I don’t trust counceling because the last time I went,and I was in the middle of explaining my issue the doctor brought my husband and daughter into the room and ignored me after that.
If anyone needs more detail to help me you can send me a personal message.

Thank you

Mon, Mar 18 3:06pm · Five Things I Wish I’d Known Before My Chronic Illness in Neuropathy

Hi, my name is Laura, and I want to thank you for the web address. It helped me to understand why my doctors say I have a chronic illness and putting me on anti-depression medication. I'm even having a follow up with my neurologists in April. I hope they figure out what's causing my pain every time I eat, and I'm slowly having hearing problems as well with my eyes. So far every test I have say's there nothing wrong and I feel like no one wants to believe me.
yes, there are changes in my home but that's an everyday issue with changes.
1. Husband has to go through another surgery.
2. Newborn
3. Have to get new water pump…..ectra
Nothing truly new, but I guess this is enough for the doctors to say I'm fine.

Mon, Mar 4 3:34am · GI Disorder and Internal Shaking in Digestive Health

Hi, my name is Laura, and I have been having pressure in my head for a long time and it's 24/7. I'm also suffering from contapation. I have to take liquid bowl softener to use the bathroom every day.
I'm also have tingling in both of my hands.
On Tuesday 3/6/19 to see if my food is being digested. I also have some kind of magnigment on or around my heart.
Has anyone been through this? Or knows the outcome?