My first son, now 39 years old, seem to have 90% of the symptoms and behaviors of Borderline Personality Disorder. He was adopted by us at 11 1/2 months old.
He has just abandoned his two children (by two mothers), moving CA from TX without telling them. He is with his third wife and her two children. I told me the last time I talked to him, that I had “disowned” him and didn’t support him. We have always had a very difficult relationship. I’m still having trouble accepting that I am not loved by my grown child. I’m looking for someone who’s experienced this within their family and some coping skills.