I had a complete hysterectomy in June of 1994. By fall I was very achey & it continued to get worse. I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia. I have delt with it for a long time now. What helped me most: 1) Relefan (a pain med like motrin but easy on the stomach), Cymbalta, Ultram for when the pain got really bad warm water exercises, a hot tub (you can get a perscription & claim it on your income tax as a medical expense) or jacuzzi tub or walk in tub with jets. Make sure it has a heater to keep the water warm!, regular massage therapy, chiropractic treatments, and a good comfortable matress like the Sleep Number beds (you can adjust the firmness depending on how you feel).
The National Fibromyalgia Association and Fibromyalgia Network are 2 great sites to go to for forums, chatting and info. There are also groups on facebook.
Hope that helps 🙂