My wife has been complaining almost daily of physical ailments. Something always hurts her. It is either her head, arm, leg, bones, ear, eyes, fingers, stomach, etc. She has had medical exams and scans done on her head and stomach. The results are always negative. Doctors never ask about her sexual health. My wife and I have been married 12 years. Our sex life died about two years into our marriage and I later just closed off emotionally to her. We enjoy each others company now but no sexs in involved. Friends tell me my wife and I live like two friends instead of a married union. Could this be the reason she always complaints about her physical hurts? Can any one recommend some books or websites to learn more about this?