@eileen61 I am sorry that your employer is being difficult so soon. I am afraid that I am not much help though. My employers worked with me and I am easily replaced as FMLAs were priority for the float/resource nurses to cover. I did not do much research on the internet because I see on an almost daily basis how misleading it can be. My family/friends were asking when I was first diagnosed so I did go onto the American Cancer Society website to see what treatment options would be, but this still was not enough to know what the plan would be. I took everything one day at a time. Do what you can today to prepare for what may happen tomorrow. I totally understand how it makes you feel out of control. I hope that your treatment goes well and is successful. Please keep us up to date.