Hi there…..I’m Annie. I have an embarrassing problem with having to wear either feminine pads or bladder control pads. I have mentioned that to my doctor and she told me to do kegels for a while but they don’t seem to be doing the trick. I had mentioned that to me oldest sister and she said I might have to have my bladder pulled up. Is that very big of a procedure? I am 52 year old female (11/18/64). Thanks!!