Im 38 my boyfriend is 59 yes he is much older.hes the best thing that’s happened to me.his parents passed away and so have mine so i don’t have to worry about them but i do have to deal with his kids which are near my age.they haven’t been mean to me yet.Gary has been more grumpy lately. I just figured its because hes in pain.he refuses to do kemo he says he would rather let nature take its course. Ive read up on cancer and kemo i understand where hes coming from. It just sux having to watch him slowly wither away from all the weight hes lost.i guess i just got so comfortable with having everything i needed and wanted i never thought id eventually loose him to cancer. Gary is the long hair and beard biker,tough as nails.a heart of gold.I don’t have a clue what ill do when hes gone.im disabled and can’t work, so im taking it one day at a time.The drs told us theres nothing they can do for him but pump pain meds in him,he went from 260 now hes 190.only time and waiting now, thanks for listening.