Mental illnesses do not define who we are

Posted by Roxie43 @roxie43, Mar 1, 2012

People that live with mental illnesses are not simply reduced to a diagnostic label found in a text book nor by people who have difficulties looking beyond the surface
Living with a mental illness does not automatically equally incompetence, a low IQ, poor boundaries, laziness, malingering, difficult, dishonest nor unworthy or undeserving of life’s wonderful and fulfilling achievements
It’s important for people living with mental illnesses to realize and be cognizant that the federal government provides funding resources so that states in the U.S. can provide much needed services that will enhance the lives of the people being discused.
Furthermore, if we did not exist, just as if diabetes, the facilities, the funding nor the jobs would exist
For years, I have been exposed to a way of thinking towards those living with mental illness that conflicts with my personal and academically influenced belief system.
For almost 2 decades, I have witnessed how human beings are reduced to pathology instead of individualism.
I am not defined, solely, on genetics nor a label and neither are reader’s.
I am a culmination of: my culture, belief system, experiences, accomplishments and yes some challenges
Interestingly, most of the human population are defined by a host of contributing factors ….not just one!
So, why does it appear that when it comes to mental illnesses some forget, whether intentional or not, that we are somehow incapable of contributing to every aspect of everyday living?
Einstein, former presidents, van gough, super stars and even professionals working in a variety of fields have been known to live with mental illnesses but are they famous for an illness or the contributions they have made to society? Contributions!
Yet, for the common person, it appears that more and more others have been trying to box us into one category and I fully disagree with these impossed categorical limitations = defining who we are!
Please, no matter where you are in life do not allow others to tell you who you are nor what you’re worth.
I, vividly recall when I graduated with an MSW a colleague telling me to my face “you were never meant to be a social worker”. I could not believe what I was hearing let alone feel so demoralized especially since I already had the job title because my colleagues with the same titles only had undergraduate degrees, where doing social work but I, the ill one, with an advanced degree was never meant? ????
I cannot respect people as such. They are a disappointment to human kind.
However, regardless of the sting and the sad reality that employer’s discriminate against us I stand firm!
I am worthy of everything I aspire to do and my illness does not, nor, will it ever define who I am and neither will an insensitive and biased person
We may not always feel great but we have names, careers, goals, relationships, and illnesses but this is representative of the human population.
Let’s not become immune to labels and always remember that no matter what the circumstances if we respect others we should expect the same.
In solidarity against stigma, oppression and discrimination :+)

@roxie43

Sadly, I’m sure a lot of us are simply defined by labels instead of human being’s. Keep your heads up no matter what….
Hugs,
Rox

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After meeting and getting to know so many wonderful people here, I’m so proud of this discussion because we are all living proof that mental illness does not define us.
I feel blessed to have met individuals who are: bright, articulate, kind, jovial, expressive, caring, sensitive, accepting, passionate, hard worker’s and so much more!!!!
You should all be so proud of yourselves because you have proven that labels are WRONG
Hugs,
Rox

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@roxie43

Sadly, I’m sure a lot of us are simply defined by labels instead of human being’s. Keep your heads up no matter what….
Hugs,
Rox

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Do you ever feel like we are kinder to others than we are to ourselves?

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@roxie43

Sadly, I’m sure a lot of us are simply defined by labels instead of human being’s. Keep your heads up no matter what….
Hugs,
Rox

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yes ido alot of the time i feel this way hugs

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@roxie43

Sadly, I’m sure a lot of us are simply defined by labels instead of human being’s. Keep your heads up no matter what….
Hugs,
Rox

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We have to incorporate self kindness into our repertoire

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@roxie43

Sadly, I’m sure a lot of us are simply defined by labels instead of human being’s. Keep your heads up no matter what….
Hugs,
Rox

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we do I so agree Hugs xo

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@roxie43

Sadly, I’m sure a lot of us are simply defined by labels instead of human being’s. Keep your heads up no matter what….
Hugs,
Rox

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Some people may conform because society has conditioned them to. All, they know and live, has made them feel the way they do. This is prevalent in lifelong users of a

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@roxie43

Sadly, I’m sure a lot of us are simply defined by labels instead of human being’s. Keep your heads up no matter what….
Hugs,
Rox

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Broken system ..

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No one is immune from mental illnesses….. This video highlights famous people with mental illnesses who were not solely defined by illness….

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No one is immune from mental illnesses….. This video highlights famous people with mental illnesses who were not solely defined by illness….

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Amazing insight and never realized how many famous people have and do continue to suffer. Well worth the watch my friends. Take care piglit

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No one is immune from mental illnesses….. This video highlights famous people with mental illnesses who were not solely defined by illness….

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amazing video. makes me feel better

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@roxie43

No one is immune from mental illnesses….. This video highlights famous people with mental illnesses who were not solely defined by illness….

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The video is powerful …

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No one is immune from mental illnesses….. This video highlights famous people with mental illnesses who were not solely defined by illness….

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they do don’t they hugs x

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No one is immune from mental illnesses….. This video highlights famous people with mental illnesses who were not solely defined by illness….

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It’s amazing isn’t it? We are really not alone
Hugs

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No one is immune from mental illnesses….. This video highlights famous people with mental illnesses who were not solely defined by illness….

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We are not alone Rox and we never will be Hugs back

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No one is immune from mental illnesses….. This video highlights famous people with mental illnesses who were not solely defined by illness….

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You are right … but isolation can make us feel so alone at times
Hugs,
Rox

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