Why doesnt anyone write me back, im desperate for help.

Posted by jodyalbright @jodyalbright, Jul 24, 2011

why doesnt anyone write me back, im desperate for help. i will not surrender to this…..someone give me any feedback tht might help me……..

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Hey Jody…not everyone has an answer on here, from what Ive seen, most people talk about their own experience or the knowledge they have of different health problems. I know nothing about hyperparathyroid issues, so I wouldnt respond to that. Low iron can cause weakness, bone pain? I dunno, have you googled it? Have you seen a doc? If ur doc isnt helping I would try a new one. Me, I am very satisfied with my docs at Mayo in Rochester. I highly recommend them! Have a blessed day!

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Hi Jody, what other symptoms do you have besides the weakness???? have you changed your diet? or are taking any new medication??? the best thing is for you to google or better yet the Mayo Clinic could help you if you do a search with your symptoms. good luck to you, God Bless

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Because they don't have a clue! Not even the doctors. I just sent you another note about my challenge with weakness.
Good luck!!!

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Looks like my first note to you did not go through, but I did sent it to private reply, so I hope you did. If you care to vent, please do know that I am a good listener. Being so weak is the pits!!

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I understand you are discouraged. Please know that there are others and I send you love and hope that this is figured out soon. Many things are just not answered by doctors.

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I totally feel your pain!!! I have so many things wrong with me, that it’s just unbelievable! From TBI to Interstitial Cystitis, Pelvic Floor Disorder and incontinence to severe back pain and Fibromyalgia, Chronic Kidney Stones and Chronic Kidney Disease, to recently becoming blind, and that’s just the beginning! You also have to add the depression, anxiety, adhd, ocd, ptsd, etc. I e been to tons of doctors, and talked to lots of people, lots of procedures, surgeries, medications, and feel more alone than ever! Moved to a new state right before Covid! I have no friends!
I’ve done some soul searching and realized that in the past all I did was tell people my problems…medical problems. I never wanted pity, just for others to understand and/or give advice, as I worked in the medical field. I couldn’t understand why I always reached out to others, but they never reached out to me. Well, who wants to be with someone like me! I never have anything positive to say!
So on a last ditch effort, I went to a neurosurgeon, and got bitch slapped basically saying that they can’t do anything for me and I will need to live the rest of my life in agony! My Chiropractor begs to differ. I’m so tired and sick of being tired, I kinda want to give up! I have No quality of like. I was always the caregiver, even in massive pain, and now people are taking care of me! I hate that! I have no independence! Being blind takes away most of your life!
SO, since being in medical marajuana, I’m able to handle things better. So I’ve been reaching out to my friends and family who all live far away and explain the above and apologize to them for how I was and that I’m working on being a better person and how much I value their friendship! Whatever happens, happens! I do feel some relief. You’ll know who is really there for you!
As far as doctors, as long as you’re up for the fight, don’t take No for an answer! I Know what is wrong with me! The patient knows best! I’m learning to accept the fact that I won’t always have the correct diagnosis, I just know how I feel. They can’t take that away from me! As long as you can get the treatment you need to be as healthy and pain free as possible!
I wish you the best, and I’m always here if you want to talk! Sorry for the long message.

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If you could give us a little more information about what is going on with you that would be helpful. Thanks

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I’m sorry you’re going through such a rough time. I wish there was something I could do to help you.

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We share the same first name and spelled the same!
I wish I could help you but just stay focused and trust they will figure out your illness soon. Be strong and fight the good fight my friend!

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