I've been told by 3-4 people in the past couple weeks that I need to take a break. One was my brother-in-law who had a liver transplant 4 years ago. Another was my massage therapist who said stress is starting to affect my health and that she has noticed that my personality has changed since my husband's diagnosis. It's been suggested that I get away for a couple days, so I'm debating about going too my sister's house. What's making me nervous about it is the fact that my husband's MELD is up to 30, so "the call" could come anytime now. (His brother transplanted at a 31.)
I would have a plan in place of what to do if the call did happen to come while I'm gone. I also wouldn't go if my husband isn't comfortable with it. I just really need a break. Would I be out of line if I go?