Stigma & Mental Illness

Posted by Roxie43 @roxie43, Dec 5, 2011

Albeit shameful and ignorant that it is almost 2012, and many of us are still confronted with biases. judgements and disparate treatment, I encourage all to hold your head up high. I know what it's like to be looked at differently because of a label, diagnosis or even someones inability to look deeper than the surface.
I often ask myself why some folks behave the way they behave and perhaps I will never find an honest answer. I hypothesize that perhaps there is something in me that may remind someone of themselves or that perhaps that, until recently, I had always functioned so well that those with certain belief systems or stereo-types feel that they are experts on who I am.
I recently posted on ECT and the benefits for me as an individual. Talk therapy is also important because it allows us to process, in a safe and healthy forum, the things that people have said or done to us. I recall when I first requested FMLA at work and a person made the comment "If you cannot report to work maybe you should not work". I was requesting intermittent leave because the stigma and disparate treatment was taking it's toll and this so called healthy individual was so insensitive.
I know we have come a long way but we still have a long way to go. Stigma is one reason some don't admit that something ails them nor seek help. We all have to use our voices, our stories, our expertise (on who were are) and continue to raise awareness about the importance of treating others the way in which one would like to be treated, not selective respect and equality but across the board.
Being good to one another should not be based on pre-conceived notions that certain populations are more worthy than others. We are valuable individuals with strengths, creativity, feelings and we contribute to society wholeheartedly and should always be viewed and treated as such!
Have you been treated differently lately? How did you deal with it?

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@piglit

Hi my dear friends many of you will remember my story of Mark. I saw him again today and he is doing so well and trying so hard. I don;t know if he remembers me or not. But everytime i see him i say hello and i giive him a warm smile and he returns one back to me. I feel as if i did make a difference even if it was a little one. I hope i did anyway
Hugs piglit

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Hugsx0

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@china

Will never go away.

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Im glad you had a nice weekend dear.
Hugs,
Rox

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@china

Will never go away.

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i.m pleased that you did too sweetie. It's such fun going to the mall and spending time with your family Hugs Piglit

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@china

Will never go away.

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how was your guy's weekend?

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@china

Will never go away.

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can't understand my dear

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@littledreamer

I guess what I struggle with is how we are suppose to get people to understand. I mean, I feel like we can't really protest without people still thinking "well their crazy" or something like that, you know? I feel there is so much pressure on us to NOT make a mistake while we're trying to change things because if we do, well that just fuels their stigma.

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2 smart 2b 14. ???

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@littledreamer

I guess what I struggle with is how we are suppose to get people to understand. I mean, I feel like we can't really protest without people still thinking "well their crazy" or something like that, you know? I feel there is so much pressure on us to NOT make a mistake while we're trying to change things because if we do, well that just fuels their stigma.

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A very knowledgeable, caring 14 year old who is sharing and helping us and others through her own life's experiences, and I am sure will follow her dreams and become a wonderful doctor Piglit

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@littledreamer

I guess what I struggle with is how we are suppose to get people to understand. I mean, I feel like we can't really protest without people still thinking "well their crazy" or something like that, you know? I feel there is so much pressure on us to NOT make a mistake while we're trying to change things because if we do, well that just fuels their stigma.

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Which fiction book did you read that states that 14 year olds can't be articulate, bright and cannot offer sound advice? Throw it away because our youth, especially well rounded youth, can teach adults a wealth of important and pertinent information about healthy living.

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@china

Will never go away.

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It was nice and hot. I love the sun...it makes me feel better.

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@roxie43

Stigma is poison someone wrote in an earlier post. This has stayed with me. Stigma ruins lives.
Remember ...you all have rights!
Hugs,
Rox

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Thank you Viv...so do you.
Hugs,
Roxie

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