My ex-husband has been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer in September 2011. I have known my ex since I was 16 yrs old, I am now 45 and he is the father of my two children and my best friend. I am just sick about what he is going through and wanted to open a discussion to maybe find some friends that are going through the same thing. He was first diagnosed with cancer in the liver and has now spread to his lungs, throat, low back. He has been through radiation twice on the lower back and chemo. It seems like he takes 10 steps forward then now 5 steps back. He is now loosing his memory and its scary because I don't know what all to expect. Thank you for listening and just wanted to hear what other people go through and how they cope.