After my husband passed away 4 years ago, I met somebody new. Things were going very well in the begining. As time passed, I came to realize my new friend was very possessive and obsessed with me. He is also a borderline alcoholic. The times when he had his Tequila shots, he became a very mean drunk. But yet I kept taking him back into my life. I truly love this man and we planned on getting married next month. But after all his accusations and lies and petty bullshit, I don’t know what to do. I am very much in love with him, but I am getting physically sick over all this crap. I cry everyday. I don’t eat or sleep much anymore. And yet I still want him in my life. Maybe I have a problem too. My son adores him. My son is a Downs Syndrome young adult and he doesn’t understand why Glenn hasn’t called or seen us in a while. Please somebody give me some advice and help.