I was married for 21 years, during that time, whenever my wife and I would have intercourse, my bulbo-urethral (or whichever glands) would secrete a clear fluid that seemed to never stop coming out.
Now, if I'm involved with a woman, not necessarily sexually, it seems as though those glands start up and I have a mess. This is not semen, as I understand it, but a pre-seminal fluid. I'm concerned about how this looks to a sexual partner, and if this is a normal part of sexual activity? Thank you.