My husband has recently been diagnosed with an advanced stage of pancreas cancer which is complicated by an encephalite which is part of the paraneoplastic disorders. The problem is that the antibody which attacked his brain in this disorder cannot be identified because it has never been seen before. But, I am looking for experiences of other spouses of family members of people who suffer from this disorder to know how it manifested. My husband has become very aggressive—he can be very degrading verbally This is so unkeeping with his personality—we had always had a very close and nurturing relationship. I am finding this new development difficult to cope with. Can anyone share their experiences with me? Thank you so very much.