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DELIA SANDERSON
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listening

Posted by @deliasanderson, Dec 17, 2012

If we listened more to other people about their pain and their hardships, could that help reduce our own pain and suffering. Does empathy create brainwaves that allow more energy to flow throughout the body?

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piglit
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Posted by @piglit, Dec 17, 2012

I can only speak from my own opinion on this and I would have to state yes. I as a carer spend my days listening to the other issues that the people that I care for have to face, and I do feel that each and everyday that in some way I do make a difference just by being there at times. and yes I do believe that helping others can help to reduce the issues that we are faced with. and maybe even make us realize that our own problems aren’t as great as others. Take care God bless


DELIA SANDERSON
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Posted by @deliasanderson, Dec 18, 2012

also when you are thinking of someone else’s discomfort and pain, you get creative in ways to alleviate it. this keeps the mind and heart working insinc and perhaps this is why it”s so rewarding.when you actually do give them some release from physical or emotional pain.


piglit
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Posted by @piglit, Dec 18, 2012

So very true and I totally agree. Also I feel it gives us and others a great deal of comfort, by just being there. Sometimes people just need someone to talk too and as I say have good listening ears. If we all took the time to listen I feel the world could be a better place, so many people have no one. Take care


DELIA SANDERSON
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Posted by @deliasanderson, Dec 18, 2012

reality is the world of ideas and then these are made into physical forms sometimes. friendship is really from shared ideas and the form of friendship actualizes from these genuine interactions. loneliness can be felt with a room full of people if it is all about fashion and decor. these in and of themselves are fun and ok and they can lighten up occasions but they are simply the frills. when people put these things first, there’s the lack of real communication. sometimes people don’t understand this and why they are so lonely in a particular crowd. most people are not great listeners, they are few and far between but they are such a delight when you do encounter them. it’s ironic, that sometimes a stranger is a great listener and a wonderful inciteful conversationalist. that is why life is so exciting because 2 way communication can happen any time and it does not have to be a trusted friend or family member, it may very well be that new stranger you meet.


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Posted by @anon32813461, Dec 23, 2012

Everyone has great comments. I hear you on the pain and hardship. Are you already listening to people? if so how is it helping you, and them if it is great, great keep doing it. You are who you are with. don’t get wrapped up in the dram though, that doesn’t help anyone. If you are an empath, sometimes energy effects you by listening to others, it can actually drain your energy. You listen because you want to listen. Change brain waves, our thought process can change the energy to the brain. There are all kinds of things that can help

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