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Just found out I have Herpes 2

Posted by Anonymous-4a2de24a in Just Want to Talk, Apr 9, 2012

Ive been married for almost 20 years. Had an affair with an old lover. Contacted the disease. I have started the med. I have not told my husband, so afraid he will leave me. He would be devasted, I can't hurt him...but at the same time, i dont want to infect him. What should I do. Don't know what I will do if he leaves me, my world will be turned up side down.

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Posted by @bigred, Apr 11, 2012

Ask god to forgive u and ask him to guide you! Ask god what shall you do and he shall lead you!!!!


Posted by @piglit, Apr 11, 2012

Hi you need to get the proper medication for this an appoinment with your Dr. This is as you know highly contagious, your husband and other members of the family are at risk. Sometimes it can be hard to face things that we have done and regret them later. But in the end I feel it would be the right thing to do. Take care Piglit

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Posted by @bunny2012, May 29, 2012

Hi Piglit and Bigred. Thanks for your response..I am doing so much better, finally told my husband, and he got tested and is negative. He is working on forgiving me...I feel so relieved. I have asked GOD for forgiveness. Hope all is well with you to.


Posted by @piglit, May 29, 2012

Take care here if you need me Piglit


Posted by @roxie43, May 29, 2012

It's important to note that just because you're taking medication you can still infect your husband. The medication is to prevent outbreaks which can be painfully uncomfortable. I was once an HIV/STD pre-test/post-test counselor in a public health department. Herpes is not only spread when you have an outbreak. Research suggest that a woman's vaginal fluids can also transmit the virus.
Even wearing condoms can be a little risky because only a portion of his anatomy is shielded.
I think that honesty is going to have to take place. I'm very sorry about your dilemma and wish you the best.


Posted by @roxie43, May 29, 2012

Hi Again,
I'm glad you were forthcoming. Just remember dear can still infect others.
Good luck,


Posted by @skylover, Jun 1, 2012

Don't upset by herpes .it is just a minor virus, come to ""many herpes people there .Just feel free to chat, share stories, make? friends in your local area.You can find someone to talk to or offer help and advice there.

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Posted by @piglit, Jun 1, 2012

Hi skylover it really concerns me to think that you feel that Herpes2 is just a minor virus. It is a sexually transmitted disease and can have ongoing problems and cross infect people that you come in sexual contact with. Please be careful these kinds of transmitted diseases will continue if due care is not taken and the person with the disease doesn.t have consideration for others Piglit

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