I have lived with someone with bipolar disorder for five years now. Not only is the bipolar disorder a battle, but the choices to use other things to self-medicate has created multiple addictions to overcome as well. Pills, alcohol, marijuana, and sex are a few. Compulsive sexual behavior is really affecting the relationship I have with this person. I am SO tired of the lies and rollercoaster. I feel like I am going crazy! They refuse to seek medical help or counseling services, and continues to lie and get caught up in compulsive behavior. I love this person very much, but I need to establish boundaries. No one I know completely understands what kind of a position I am in or what this does to me personally. I'm looking for anyone that can offer advice and support for either myself or my loved one.