I have been married 13 years. My husband has horrible mood swings. I walk on eggshells all of the time. He can call on his way home from work and seem to be in a good mood but when he walks in the door he is nasty moody grumpy etc. Our lives are unhealthy. We do not have physical fights…thank God, however this mental abuse is driving me crazy. I have a love/hate relationship with him depending on which mood and personality he is in.