Hi Roxie--I have seen you on a couple of sites. I am 55 and have been diagnosed with BPD..Wish I had the money for counseling(am on SSD). @roxie43
Try calling your local lead mental health agencies.. They offer free services to individuals that cannot afford them. BPD requires DBT- Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and it is wonderful because it teaches one how to control emotions and develop relationships that are not hurtful. Hang in there.. Also, look for support groups because they really help.