Hi- I'm new to this blog. Our therapist asked us to check into Reactive Attacment Disorder. My husband adopted my step-son when he was six from China. He is thirteen now. We received custody because of issues with the adopted female. There was much abuse in the house and three birth children. Now that we have him full time we having mutiple issues such as no eye contact, no physical contact, does not understand his actions and does not care when spoken too. I would really like to connect with someone who is dealing with the same things since I'm having issues dealing with this myself. I want to connect with him but he has such an issue trusting women right now. Please contact me if you have had the same problems.