Do all State-funded caregivers have attitude issues?

Posted by teatree777 @teatree777, Jul 15 4:35am

So far I have gone through 3 caregivers in a 6 Month period. Oddly the same attitudes would arise from each of them. I just found out from my third caregiver that they Share information about you with each other (whether it is true or not) .. especially if you have decided to let them go, that is when they spread whatever anger they have on to your next State caregiver.

(I was shocked about this) As I feel it puts the Clients in a very bad vulnerable state. ..They do not share anything with you about their Referrals or past behaviors, but they share things about the Client with all the Caregivers before they ever step foot in your home. (I think people should know this point) Because it can and most times Does make a difference on the attitudes and Treatment you will receive.

Being Weak and disabled nobody needs any staff coming to do more harm than good, off the word of a Disgruntled previous Caregiver. This is very important for people to know.

I will be seeking caregivers from another group from now on. One not directly affiliated with the state, but who excepts State funding as payment. It is safer that way.

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Fred | @fred1 | Jul 16 9:30am

Not sure what you mean by "state" caregivers. However, caregivers, from whatever agency, do share information - good, bad, or ugly. It helps them be more cognizant of what to expect from a given patient. However, no matter the information they've received from another, that should not affect their "attitude" toward the patient nor the family members. If it does then they need to be reported to their superiors, if you consider it a serious violation.

My experience with caregivers, was at times very good - at other times not so much. However, I always considered what it was they were contending with. Having been the sole caregiver for my wife for six years, I can understand what these people are dealing with caring for strangers, day after day. AND...yes, I know it's their job, that they volunteer doing - that does not make it any easier. Whenever a caregiver from the hospice team did something that did not make me happy, as long as it caused to harm to my wife (and it never did), I just took it in stride and hoped the person would do better the next visit. Be strong, and understanding - don't allow another's attitude affect your health - as long as you are receiving the service you require and no harm is being done, take care of yourself and loved one.

raebaby | @raebaby | Jul 16 1:53pm

As a former registered nurse, I learned that the patients whose children are constantly complaining, get less loving care than one who is friendly and happy. . Resentment on behalf the care staff due to constant complaining does not make for better care.