'My spouse is eating Jelly Bellies and is out of control. He has a history of type II diabetes prior to his gastric bypass 2.5 years ago. Lately he's been eating in excess of 1000 calories in Jelly Bellies every day. He won't listen when I express concern. He's in denial and doesn't want to be labeled a diabetic ever again. I need advise on how to handle this out of control situation.