Hello, my ex wife has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder as well as bi-polar disorder. At this point and time she is not in treatment but is taking an anxiety medication. She has fallen on hard times due to poor decision making and has asked to move back in with me and our two children. It is hard to see her going through this.t I am very concerned and would like to help her if I can, however my first priority is the well being and safety of my children (and myself). She at times has displayed a violent temper and the ability to inflict injury to herself. I am seeking advice from anyone who has had experience with something similar. Thank you.